You need to first and foremost take responsibility for the way your life is today and where it is heading. While others may have had anywhere from a small to a large role to play in shaping it, it is finally your responsibility to let run the way it has been or to do something positive about it.
Look for a good role model. Understand what has made them so successful and so self-confident and learn from that.
Treat your failures as stepping-stones and dwell more on your achievements, to derive positive thoughts from them.
Take steps to feel good about yourself - groom yourself well, buy some new clothes, visit the parlor to give yourself a complete makeover.
Act very confidently and assertively - you will see some immediate results. You will feel far more confident right away.
Do not focus too much on aspects or abilities that you lack. You may not have the ability to engage a group or make them laugh but you may be a very sincere and loyal friend who sticks by others. Focus on these attributes.
Being well prepared is half the job done, they say. This is absolutely true. Being ill prepared only sets you up for failure and dents your confidence.
You should work continuously on improving your skills or acquiring new ones so that you never feel insecure in your job or any job that you may be looking for.
Have a bunch of relaxation exercises ready to work on when you are feeling particularly stressed.
Always stand straight and walk straight. This will make you look and feel more confident.
Break up each one of your main goals into small, more easily reachable goals. When you achieve this goal (no matter how small), it will be a task off your calendar and you will feel more confident having achieved something.
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